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When they are gone !

The birth of a child brings joy to the household. The cries,the play, the food, the sleep. The entire household starts tuning in their clocks to the child's timings. It's all about them. Fathers constantly working, so they give them a good life, and mothers constantly yearning to nurture.  The little ones become big princes and princesses of the little kingdoms. However as they grow, they start realizing that they have wings. They test the strength often till they are confident. And one day,  They fly away ! 🕊🕊🕊🕊 Gone to make their dreams come true. What is left behind are happy memories, lots of love and a hope to re-unite someday.     The straws of the empty nest  prick, but Welcome reality ! ðŸ’¥ðŸ’¥ðŸ’¥ðŸ’¥ Many parents find it challenging to manouvre their emotions through this phase.The curtain between childhood and adulthood does not blur for them and they end up in a mess.  Often parents spoil their relations with their child or end up with me...

Bonding between Ups & Downs

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 January 20, 2025 When the pregnancy stick confirms the arrival of a new member, the environment is naturally charged with hugs, kisses, care, and a lot of advice from near and dear ones, more by the ones who don't even know you! The new Mommy and Daddy eagerly await for tiny troublemakers to come into their lives. And Lo! the day arrives. With the child, parents are also born. With happiness comes a lot of realization that Parenting is not a bed of roses. From breastfeeding to emotion management, the parents learn new lessons every day. Something unique, something for which they are not trained. (The experiences are so unique, that any amount of training may not suffice).  The Child and Parent grow together in the process. Sometimes the journey seems to be smooth like a calm ocean but sometimes it feels like a tsunami that just hit the bottom of the sea. Emotions of anger, frustration, guilt, disappointment, and unmatched expectations splash all over. All people involved are ...